We continually forget one underlying mantra the need to
connect with each player. One can make up for a lack of it to some degree
with group tactics and team motivation. But if we can not listen to and
talk with players as individuals, then we are guiding a herd rather than
uplifting individuals.
Over the summer or shortly before the fall season, make a new and
special effort to reconnect with each of your players. Take some time to
prepare how you will approach each player. It may be done formally as in
set meetings or informally as in casual chats. Remember that all players
are unique and will receive feedback, reflect, plan, and share feelings in
their own way. Attempt to remove whatever previous opinions or stereotypes
you may have of each player.
Try to reconnect from a fresh, positive, and honest baseline. Lastly,
emphasize that your relationship with the player is a two-way street with
each side influencing the other. Your players will respect and feed off
your rejuvenated attitude. Following are some examples of topics and
questions you may want to consider when you approach the players
Self-Esteem
